FWB, NSA, etc.

by Lady Perv January 25, 2011

Wow, Salon.com really pissed me off today! It’s totally not on the roster of sites I regularly check, so it was fun to check it out and get all angry. Rage is always good blog fodder. I’ve been having an ongoing debate with a friend of mine about whether friends-with-benefits situations (henceforth referred to as […]

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by Lady Perv January 4, 2011

I find it so interesting that a lot of women have a sense of pride about being able to sufficiently self-lubricate for sex without the help of lube. Likewise, lots of dudes have a sense of pride about being able to get their partners wet enough to get it on. Look, people. Lube is great. […]

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Dating self vs. sexual self

by Lady Perv December 22, 2010

There’s this phenomenon on OK Cupid where dudes will have two separate profiles: one for dating and one for casual sex. This totally boggles my mind! Why on earth would anyone think it’s a good idea to separate his dating self from his sexual self? It seems like dating and sex are two things that really […]

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Reconciling Sex Positivity with Sexual Assault

by Redd Delicious December 20, 2010

Today’s post is by our latest guest perv, the truly kick-ass Redd Delicious. We’re so honored that she chose to share this here. I didn’t think this would be the subject of my first post here, but this is what came out, so I’m going with it. I’m going do the hardest part first, which […]

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Going Viral

by Lady Perv December 11, 2010

Sexually Oriented‘s last post on squirting mentioned cervical surgery, which brought me back to my old friend, HPV! So, not to be totally unsexy here, but I love talking about HPV, because I know it can be extremely confusing. I have done a lot of reading and obsessing over HPV, having had my own slightly […]

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Squirting Ladies.

by Sexually Oriented December 9, 2010

Today’s Guest Perv is Sexually Oriented! We’re pretty stoked that she’s sharing her squirting knowledge here. Be sure to check out her blog, especially the resources page. I feel like there is a certain air of mystery surrounding female ejaculation.  Some people claim it doesn’t exist.  Some say they’ve always done it.  Some people say […]

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Am I Normal?

by Lady Perv December 6, 2010

Honkey was subbing at a high school today, and related this anecdote about his day: One of the girls in my class today marched in late and, when someone asked where she had been, loudly announced that she’d been having sex in the bathroom. I pretended not to have heard her. Because… how am I […]

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Me, Mary Wollstonecraft, and the Dialectic: a Love Story

by Honkey December 1, 2010

Guest Perv Honkey returns this week, and considers his own misguided love affair with one of the earliest feminists, airs out the misfortune that resulted, and tries to reach a synthesis, with a smattering of risque language. I swear he uses the phrase “boning a dude” in there somewhere. As far as historians have been […]

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Marriage Machine

by Lady Perv November 30, 2010

I was riding the subway home from the grocery store today, when I saw this weird ad. It was a couple in bed, the woman looking annoyed, and the man asleep with his mouth agape. The text said, “He may not always be charming, but he’s always your prince.” I was like, “Wha?” So I […]

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Money in the Bag

by Lady Perv November 28, 2010

So, this video just totally cracks me up. But it also makes me think about sex ed in schools! And since I have way too much to say about abstinence-only education (SO ANGRY!!), and I really should be studying lady bits for my final on Tuesday, I’m just going to post the video for your […]

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