Oh my god guys, we got a letter! Hi! I’m a poly cis-dude dating two lovely women at the moment. One of them, who for the sake of clarity, I’ll call my secondary, is HSV-1 positive. Of course, she disclosed to me right away before anything ever happened between us. My problem/question is this: My primary partner (who we also […]


IUD Rundown Part II

by Lady Perv on February 16, 2011

in Advice,Cervices,Contraceptives,Nurse Nerd,Sex Ed

Dear Lady Perv, Are there any issues with the IUD and a solid deep-dicking? I just keep imagining it (a) poking some unfortunate swain or (b) getting dislodged during a particularly vigorous episode of sexing. Eh? Also, with the spotting, for how long? Weeks? Months? Inquiring minds want to know. Love, Redd Dearest Redd, Yeah, […]



by Lady Perv on January 4, 2011

in Advice,Lube,Sex

I find it so interesting that a lot of women have a sense of pride about being able to sufficiently self-lubricate for sex without the help of lube. Likewise, lots of dudes have a sense of pride about being able to get their partners wet enough to get it on. Look, people. Lube is great. […]


Squirting Ladies.

by Sexually Oriented on December 9, 2010

in Advice,Jerkin' It,Sex Positive

Today’s Guest Perv is Sexually Oriented! We’re pretty stoked that she’s sharing her squirting knowledge here. Be sure to check out her blog, especially the resources page. I feel like there is a certain air of mystery surrounding female ejaculation.  Some people claim it doesn’t exist.  Some say they’ve always done it.  Some people say […]


Vintage Advice

by pervertsinlove on October 16, 2010

in Advice,Jerkin' It,Kink,Porn,Relationships,Sex

For a minute, Lady Perv was a Guest Bitch on ask a bitch. I just now realized that that was four years ago. Vintage advice from October 24, 2006! q: i am having a problem accepting my boyfriend’s porn habit and wonder if i am being unreasonable and childish. when we first started going out over a year ago, […]