December 2010

There’s this phenomenon on OK Cupid where dudes will have two separate profiles: one for dating and one for casual sex. This totally boggles my mind! Why on earth would anyone think it’s a good idea to separate his dating self from his sexual self? It seems like dating and sex are two things that really […]


Reconciling Sex Positivity with Sexual Assault

by Redd Delicious on December 20, 2010

in Feminism,Sex,Sex Positive

Today’s post is by our latest guest perv, the truly kick-ass Redd Delicious. We’re so honored that she chose to share this here. I didn’t think this would be the subject of my first post here, but this is what came out, so I’m going with it. I’m going do the hardest part first, which […]

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Going Viral

by Lady Perv on December 11, 2010

in Cervices,Nurse Nerd,Sex Ed

Sexually Oriented‘s last post on squirting mentioned cervical surgery, which brought me back to my old friend, HPV! So, not to be totally unsexy here, but I love talking about HPV, because I know it can be extremely confusing. I have done a lot of reading and obsessing over HPV, having had my own slightly […]

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Squirting Ladies.

by Sexually Oriented on December 9, 2010

in Advice,Jerkin' It,Sex Positive

Today’s Guest Perv is Sexually Oriented! We’re pretty stoked that she’s sharing her squirting knowledge here. Be sure to check out her blog, especially the resources page. I feel like there is a certain air of mystery surrounding female ejaculation.  Some people claim it doesn’t exist.  Some say they’ve always done it.  Some people say […]


Am I Normal?

by Lady Perv on December 6, 2010

in Junk,Sex Ed,Sex Positive,Vaginae

Honkey was subbing at a high school today, and related this anecdote about his day: One of the girls in my class today marched in late and, when someone asked where she had been, loudly announced that she’d been having sex in the bathroom. I pretended not to have heard her. Because… how am I […]


Guest Perv Honkey returns this week, and considers his own misguided love affair with one of the earliest feminists, airs out the misfortune that resulted, and tries to reach a synthesis, with a smattering of risque language. I swear he uses the phrase “boning a dude” in there somewhere. As far as historians have been […]