October 2010

by today’s Guest Perv, Honkey, who is currently obsessed with economists There are, it seems to me, three extremes in the configuration of sexual behavior that an individual may be drawn to, that are consistent with sound ethics and a commitment to the Good Life. These are: unbridled sluttiness, complete celibacy, and devoted monogamy. As I […]

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Husbands and Lovers

by Lady Perv on October 25, 2010

in Porn,Sex

So, a lot of dudes in porn wear wedding bands. Yet you rarely see any of the trappings of marriage on the lady, unless the porn is specifically about her cheating on her husband. Not to get all sex-negative, anti-porn so-called feminist about it, but what’s up with that? I guess it could easily be […]

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Batteries and Sex

by Lady Perv on October 25, 2010

in Jerkin' It,Kink,Sex,Toys

I recently met someone with a TENS machine. I can’t believe that I’ve only heard of a TENS machine being used for pain control in a medical setting without ever thinking, “Gee, I wonder if anyone ever attaches a stainless steel dildo to that thing?” Even though I’m fully aware that pretty much anything can […]

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Facebook as Relationship Forum

by pervertsinlove on October 17, 2010

in Relationships,Sluts

A couple months ago, Dan Savage had a column in which he raved about Sex at Dawn, so of course Lord Perv and I ran out and bought it. Man, it was so entertaining to walk up to the awkward dude behind the counter at the bookstore and ask, “Do you have Sex at Dawn?” […]

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Sex Ed 4eva

by pervertsinlove on October 17, 2010

in Sex Ed,Sluts

Here’s Lady Perv about two years ago, wondering when exactly she became obsessed with sex ed: I’m trying to determine whether the sluttiness is connected to the sex-ed obsession; I mean, obv they are at some level. And I know which one informed the other, contrary to what advocates of abstinence-only education might assume. I’m […]

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Lady Perv just wrote this in February. Incidentally, Betty Dodson’s introduction was definitely the best part of Cunt, and I of course went on the read the classic Sex For One. So, after years of resisting identifying with the term, I’ve finally come to terms with being a feminist. I mean, duh, I’m going into […]

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Vintage Advice

by pervertsinlove on October 16, 2010

in Advice,Jerkin' It,Kink,Porn,Relationships,Sex

For a minute, Lady Perv was a Guest Bitch on ask a bitch. I just now realized that that was four years ago. Vintage advice from October 24, 2006! q: i am having a problem accepting my boyfriend’s porn habit and wonder if i am being unreasonable and childish. when we first started going out over a year ago, […]

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Perverts in Love’s Inaugural Post

by pervertsinlove on October 16, 2010

in Sex,Sluts

OK, so I’m going to cheat here, and start posting things written by a much younger me, just to fill space until my brain isn’t crowded with mucus. Here are some deep thoughts from January 26, 2005: so, i’ve been giving a lot of thought to making out vs. doing it. but it’s a lot […]

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